Experts say you can navigate bipartisanship

Columbia, SC (WACH) — Conflict over politics can happen in any relationship, including friendships, family, and romantic relationships. However, experts say that having different political views does not have to end in unrest.

A study by the Pew Research Center shows that Democrats and Republicans have negative perceptions of each other’s party. Despite people’s strong sense of loyalty to their political beliefs, some people develop deep feelings or love for those on the other side. Self-identifying black queer Sarah Raysor said political conversations with her family can be tough. “They definitely get heated, not like the pistachio cuffs, but they definitely broke some relationships,” Raysor said.

Associate Professor of Psychology at Newberry College Dr. Carrie Caudill emphasized the need to “respect the person more than the position.” “Most people like to feel that they are right, and most people like to feel that they know best,” explained Dr. Caudill. She encouraged couples, friends and family to focus on listening instead of defending. “First, I listened to you, I really gave you space, I gave you space without me getting defensive, and by being reactive, I really gave you space to understand why?” asked Dr. Caudill?

While differing political views can be a trigger for some relationships, Dr. Caudill assured that most of them can be solved.